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Originally Posted by Becky
I think, sometimes it's better out than in, if you don't write the letter and tell her you might always regret it. If you do it then at least things will be out in the open, and not left for you to constantly keep re0thinking over and worrying about how she might react. There is a chance she might see your frienship differently, but it could go either way.
Good luck!
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Thanks, thats what i was thinking too
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Originally Posted by 3LL3_^_
You can't stop her from going out with this player guy.
She's going to learn from her mistakes.
Just be there when she realizes who this guy really is.
But don't take advantage, don't make a move when she's trying to get over him.
_^_Unless you're getting the signs that she wants you to.
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well, i dont intend to force her not to go out with him, like by using guilt or something...
i just wanna give her a letter that shows her how much ive loved her for the last 2 years. and i hope that it will make her realise that i care for her more than the player guy (although he said that he'll ask her out once he thinks he's no longer a player, he's gonna try to stop that and make a serious relationship with her)
after all, she did like me for a long time up until recently, im hoping that all i have to do is remind her of the feelings she used to have for me.
Also... if she does choose him over me, as much as i dont want to, i think ill have to stop being her friend. not only would the friendship we have likly be completely ruined, but the thought of them being together is too painful. I think i'd rather never see her again then have to go through the pain i felt when i first found out about all of this...