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Old 19-08-2008, 05:37 PM
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Originally Posted by PsychoticFairy View Post
To be honest, I think you've spent enough time with this guy, I know you love him to death, but seriously, aside from the whole gay thing, you STILL feel the need to check on him, and that is never gonna go away.
This sums up what I was going to say. If a relationship is based around lies, than you are going to have to be constantly checking behind his back. Not only does that add to the trust issues, but its also exhuasting.

The last part you said about the makeup thing, and about how sensitive he is. I wouldn't take that as a "maybe gay" thing. I am into sensitive guys too, and letting your gf put makeup on you has nothing to do with sexual tendencies. And I know you know that.

I hope it all works out. Don't make any rash decisions, but don't let this problem linger.
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