if i found out my boyf did that i would proberbly do the same as you but then break up with him for a while, then meet him somewhere public so id stay calm n there would be no chance of me giving in and getting into bed with him and ask him if he really does think he is gay or not, if he was bi id live with it but if he was gay id never talk to him again for bein so heartless by telling me he loved me while thinking of another mans cock being in his ass