me and my boyf had that problem but he was only in manchester(i live in liverpool) but with me being in school and him being in work we had to wait until the hollidays for him to book time off to come and see me and he was ment to just spend the weekend but ended up staying in my house and luckily my mum and dad didnt mind because in 2 months he had fitted a new kitchen decorated nearly the whole house and tought my little brother self defence as he was being bullied but i dont think your gonna move four hours away from your family and friends this early so i think that you should try and stick with it until you guys feel comfortable moving in with each other? and most jobs you get at least 20 days hollidays aswell as your days off so why not try and get the same days off and go away for some weekends together or something? if you guys are really in love you will find a way to make it work