Teensay Messages Boards - UK Teens Discussion Boards
Teen Chat Rooms Funny Videos Flash Games Teen Advice Music Movies Celebrity Gossip Avatars & Icons

Go Back   Teensay Teen Forums > Health and Relationships > Advice (Open to Guests)

Advice (Open to Guests) Got relationship problems or has life just got you down? Whatever is troubling you, get some advice here!

Reply
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 09:56 PM
brok3nn
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Exclamation does anyone know...

does anyone know what would happen if you were pregnant and you were under 16.? would you go to juvey if an adult found out.? espeically a vice principle.? because i had sex the other day and its been two days, and i cant eat without wanting to throw up. and i've been feeling sick all morning. someone please reply, if you can.
thank you. (:
Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote
Sponsored Links / Tell a Friend


  #2 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:00 PM
Viki's Avatar
Elephant
Bacteria
 
Join Date: 12 Aug 2004
Sex: Female
Location: Leeds
Posts: 4,721
Rep Power: 2
Viki really needs to start talking moreViki really needs to start talking more
Default

It depends what you want to happen, thats being you are actually pregnant..
What the fucks a juvey? You don't make sense to me.
__________________
and they're running through the clouds without you
Reply With Quote
  #3 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:04 PM
Marceh's Avatar
Deer
 
Join Date: 19 Jan 2008
Age: 21
Sex: Male
Location: Scotland
Posts: 1,445
Rep Power: 1
Marceh is barely visible
Default

juvenile prison
Reply With Quote
  #4 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:05 PM
Becky's Avatar
Shark
Moderator
 
Join Date: 19 Mar 2006
Age: 16
Sex: Female
Location: England
Posts: 10,446
Rep Power: 6
Becky still blends in with the wallpaperBecky still blends in with the wallpaper
Default

Do you mean Juvenile Prison?
Not in the UK, but I'm guessing your from somewhere else?



If your really worried take a test.
You can get them at your local GP for free.
(If your in the UK, do some research if your not)
It's usually up to you what happens if you are, again in the UK, you can choose whether to keep it, choose adoption or have an abortion.
It depends.

Next time, use a condom.
__________________
<3Markeh
Reply With Quote
  #5 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:06 PM
brok3nn
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Exclamation what you just wrote.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Viki View Post
It depends what you want to happen, thats being you are actually pregnant..
What the fucks a juvey? You don't make sense to me.
idk if its my choice or not. are you serious.? is that really true.? !!! i'm only 14!! and it was my first time. omg. i just wanna cry...
p.s.
juvey. "Juvenile." ??
Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote
  #6 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:10 PM
brok3nn
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Exclamation i did.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Becky View Post
Do you mean Juvenile Prison?
Not in the UK, but I'm guessing your from somewhere else?



If your really worried take a test.
You can get them at your local GP for free.
(If your in the UK, do some research if your not)
It's usually up to you what happens if you are, again in the UK, you can choose whether to keep it, choose adoption or have an abortion.
It depends.

Next time, use a condom.
i did use a condom. and i watched him sperm in it cuz he pulled me off of him when he was about to "go" in the condom. oh my god. i'm so scared. and i cant buy a pregnancy test because i'm not old enough, and i cant tell my mom. :[
Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote
  #7 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:11 PM
Becky's Avatar
Shark
Moderator
 
Join Date: 19 Mar 2006
Age: 16
Sex: Female
Location: England
Posts: 10,446
Rep Power: 6
Becky still blends in with the wallpaperBecky still blends in with the wallpaper
Default

Wow it sounds like you didn't really wanna do it?

Have you got a sister/auntie/best friend/cousin/someone really close, that you trust, and can talk to about it?
__________________
<3Markeh
Reply With Quote
  #8 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:14 PM
brok3nn
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Becky View Post
Wow it sounds like you didn't really wanna do it?

Have you got a sister/auntie/best friend/cousin/someone really close, that you trust, and can talk to about it?
hold on i'm confused here..lol.
i dont really wanna do what.?
and yeah i do. but i'm kinda scared to talk to them.
because the guy that i did, was one of my good friend's boyfriend,
who is now her ex.
and she's getting all mad but she's cheated on him before too.?
dont you think thats fair.?
Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote
  #9 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:15 PM
Viki's Avatar
Elephant
Bacteria
 
Join Date: 12 Aug 2004
Sex: Female
Location: Leeds
Posts: 4,721
Rep Power: 2
Viki really needs to start talking moreViki really needs to start talking more
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by brok3nn View Post
i did use a condom. and i watched him sperm in it cuz he pulled me off of him when he was about to "go" in the condom. oh my god. i'm so scared. and i cant buy a pregnancy test because i'm not old enough, and i cant tell my mom. :[
You can buy a test whatever your age can't you?
Where are you frommm!?
If you saw him cum in the condom and it wasn't inside you when he did it you are probably not pregnant, you're probably just being paranoid..
__________________
and they're running through the clouds without you
Reply With Quote
  #10 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:16 PM
Becky's Avatar
Shark
Moderator
 
Join Date: 19 Mar 2006
Age: 16
Sex: Female
Location: England
Posts: 10,446
Rep Power: 6
Becky still blends in with the wallpaperBecky still blends in with the wallpaper
Default

Cheating isn't fair, fullstop, in my opinion.
But regardless of that, it's happened now.
And I meant it didn't sound like you want to, and were ready to have sex.

I don't really know the laws in the USA, so your best looking it up on the internet and talking to someone you can trust.
__________________
<3Markeh
Reply With Quote
  #11 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:17 PM
brok3nn
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Viki View Post
You can buy a test whatever your age can't you?
Where are you frommm!?
If you saw him cum in the condom and it wasn't inside you when he did it you are probably not pregnant, you're probably just being paranoid..
i dont think i can. cuz i'm only 14. and well i live in the U.S.A.
and idk, i really dont feel good at all. and i feel like i have to throw up, but it comes out as a burp.? i dont know why. ?
Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote
  #12 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:19 PM
Viki's Avatar
Elephant
Bacteria
 
Join Date: 12 Aug 2004
Sex: Female
Location: Leeds
Posts: 4,721
Rep Power: 2
Viki really needs to start talking moreViki really needs to start talking more
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by brok3nn View Post
i dont think i can. cuz i'm only 14. and well i live in the U.S.A.
and idk, i really dont feel good at all. and i feel like i have to throw up, but it comes out as a burp.? i dont know why. ?
There is no age limit to buying a pregnancy test in America, I looked it up.
And I doubt you would start feeling sick already if you only had sex two days ago? But I could be wrong about that.
__________________
and they're running through the clouds without you

Last edited by Viki; 27-03-2008 at 10:23 PM.
Reply With Quote
  #13 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:23 PM
brok3nn
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Viki View Post
I'm pretty sure you will be able to. Just try! If not get a mate to try for you.
And I doubt you would start feeling sick already if you only had sex two days ago? But I could be wrong about that.
idk but i am so scared.
and the person i had sex with was my used to be
good friend's now ex boyfriend cuz she broke up with
him after she found out we did.
and it wasnt even all me. He was like, telling me she wouldnt find out
and all that and she didnt find out til' one of my best friends got drunk
the night it happend and told one of her best friends and her best
friend happend to like him. But i dont get why his ex girlfriend
is getting all mad because she cheated on him too.?
dont you think its fair.? idk.
Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote
  #14 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:26 PM
Billie's Avatar
Slug
 
Join Date: 12 Dec 2004
Age: 16
Sex: Female
Location: Leeds.
Posts: 4,257
Rep Power: 5
Billie still blends in with the wallpaperBillie still blends in with the wallpaper
Send a message via MSN to Billie
Default

You shouldn't really be having sex until you're really clued up about all of the consequences, which you are obviously not.
I doubt that you're pregnant but go take a test just incase, you can't get in trouble for that, put your mind at rest.
Reply With Quote
  #15 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:27 PM
brok3nn
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Billie View Post
You shouldn't really be having sex until you're really clued up about all of the consequences, which you are obviously not.
I doubt that you're pregnant but go take a test just incase, you can't get in trouble for that, put your mind at rest.
alright i will go to the store and see if i can buy a pregnancy test.
but yahh i am scared.
Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote
  #16 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:28 PM
Viki's Avatar
Elephant
Bacteria
 
Join Date: 12 Aug 2004
Sex: Female
Location: Leeds
Posts: 4,721
Rep Power: 2
Viki really needs to start talking moreViki really needs to start talking more
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by brok3nn View Post
idk but i am so scared.
and the person i had sex with was my used to be
good friend's now ex boyfriend cuz she broke up with
him after she found out we did.
and it wasnt even all me. He was like, telling me she wouldnt find out
and all that and she didnt find out til' one of my best friends got drunk
the night it happend and told one of her best friends and her best
friend happend to like him. But i dont get why his ex girlfriend
is getting all mad because she cheated on him too.?
dont you think its fair.? idk.
Oh jesus I couldn't give a fuck about your life story. Whether I think its fair or not won't change anything so what's the fucking point in even asking that!
Go get a pregnancy test jesus, there is no limit.
& Tbh to think you are pregnant even though you ssaid you saw him cum in the fuckin condom cause he pulled it out is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Arghhhhhh

I wasn't this stupid at 14.
__________________
and they're running through the clouds without you

Last edited by Viki; 27-03-2008 at 10:29 PM. Reason: typooo
Reply With Quote
  #17 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:30 PM
brok3nn
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Viki View Post
Oh jesus I couldn't give a fuck about your life story. Whether I think its fair or not won't change anything so what's the fucking point in even asking that!
Go get a pregnancy test jesus, there is no limit.
& Tbh to think you are pregnant even though you ssaid you saw him cum in the fuckin condom cause he pulled it out is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Arghhhhhh

I wasn't this stupid at 14.
uhm. okay.? thanks. ?
Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote
  #18 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:33 PM
Billie's Avatar
Slug
 
Join Date: 12 Dec 2004
Age: 16
Sex: Female
Location: Leeds.
Posts: 4,257
Rep Power: 5
Billie still blends in with the wallpaperBillie still blends in with the wallpaper
Send a message via MSN to Billie
Default

I wouldn't recommend you have sex again for a long time, you're obviously not mentally and emotionally ready if you can't cope with the pressures and consequences of sex.
Reply With Quote
  #19 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:35 PM
Viki's Avatar
Elephant
Bacteria
 
Join Date: 12 Aug 2004
Sex: Female
Location: Leeds
Posts: 4,721
Rep Power: 2
Viki really needs to start talking moreViki really needs to start talking more
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by brok3nn View Post
uhm. okay.? thanks. ?
It's simple.
__________________
and they're running through the clouds without you
Reply With Quote
  #20 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:37 PM
brok3nn
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Billie View Post
I wouldn't recommend you have sex again for a long time, you're obviously not mentally and emotionally ready if you can't cope with the pressures and consequences of sex.
alright. thank you.
but what do i do now.?
his now exgf is sayin she's gonna spread
a whole bunch of stuff at school,
and she said that if i ever talk to him again she's gonna
beat me up. and 2 high school freshman girls
already said they were gonna kick my a$$
and one already tried but she didnt do much but choke me.
i'm scared to go to school now.
"We're on Spring Break"
Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote
  #21 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:39 PM
Becky's Avatar
Shark
Moderator
 
Join Date: 19 Mar 2006
Age: 16
Sex: Female
Location: England
Posts: 10,446
Rep Power: 6
Becky still blends in with the wallpaperBecky still blends in with the wallpaper
Default

You should have thought about that first because you had sex with your friend's boyfriend.

Just lay low for a while.
There's nothing else you can do, your in the wrong.
__________________
<3Markeh
Reply With Quote
  #22 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:41 PM
brok3nn
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
Default

Quote:
Originally Posted by Becky View Post
You should have thought about that first because you had sex with your friend's boyfriend.

Just lay low for a while.
There's nothing else you can do, your in the wrong.
i know. i should have thought about it.
but see, no one was suppose to know.? and it accidently leaked.
:[
do you have any tips about the whole "laying low" part.

=/
Edit/Delete Message Reply With Quote
  #23 (permalink)   Top
Old 27-03-2008, 10:43 PM