Ok some background info since this is a long story

Ok so I'm 13.Ive liked this guy since I started my new school when I was 12, I was completely obsessed with him (you could call it) and an ex friend told him in the worst way possible. I forgot about it and moved on...I talked to him now and again but he started avoiding me.

Over the summer holidays I practically changed in to a whole new person, I'd never had much self confidence before and now I felt a whole lot better and I dont know if this means anything but the guy started to act a lot differently around me, but at one point my ex friend started hangind around him an awful lot. They nearly ended up together. Which btw pissed me off no freaking end. But then I heard him talking about an ex gf on the bus and he was being such a jerk...seems I wasnt the only one who had changed over the holidays.This put me off him for life as I thought BUT...the other day he sat next to me on the bus and I felt like I liked him again, and now I'm back to where I started, but I hate him so much, he is such a jerk, and its as if hes almost teasing me since he sits next to me all the time and FUCK IT PISSES ME OFF.

plz help thx
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Look, you already know he is a jerk, you've said he is a jerk, so forget about him. Nobody is saying it is easy, but you are only 13, you arent a social retard if you dont have a bf, you have heaps and heaps of time. Dont try and grow up too fast. Dont let him sit next to you. If your friend wants to be with a jerk then let her, its her that will get hurt, not you.

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From what you've said this guy sounds like a total jerk tbh. With you getting more confidence over the holidays, maybe he started to notice you (at last) but if he liked you I don't think he would've avoided you in the first place. He probably likes the feeling that he's got some kind of power over you, like sitting next to you. And maybe you've started liking him again just because he's showing more interest (I know that from experience). I think you could find someone a whole lot better who won't be a jerk. Hope that helps lol x