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Old 11-06-2008, 05:11 PM
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Since about March I've been going out with a boy I've liked for a while. But none of my other friends have boyfriends and I feel a little, I don't know how to put it. committed, maybe?

Anyway, I'm really missing my old life and I'm missing just being free and being able to do what I like without hurting anyone. I don't know whether I want to break up or what, we seem a bit more like good friends sometimes.

What should I do?
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Old 11-06-2008, 05:26 PM
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"I believe the grass is no more greener on the other side
I believe you don't know what you've got until you say goodbye"
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Old 11-06-2008, 05:30 PM
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That quote has a very good point to it. I haven't really explained myself well though have I?

Basically I'm saying after about 4 months of being together, we don't seem to like each other as much any more. It just seems like everyday we do the same thing and I just feel too committed.

I don't know whether I just want to be free again and be allowed to like who I want and not feel held back.
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Take a break? It's not necessarily breaking up, it just means you have a chance to see if you really do want to be single, and also to reignite the "fire" that's only present in a relationship at first.

If anything you should talk to him about it, who knows, he might feel exactly the same!
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Old 11-06-2008, 05:43 PM
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I don't really know what to do. "Taking a break" Isn't really something we do around here (If you know what I mean). I might try and talk to him tomorrow but I don't know if I'll be able to do it.

The other problem is it's one of my best friend's cousins...
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See your bf a bit less and your friends more
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I feel a little committed, maybe?

just being free and being able to do what I like without hurting anyone.
Basically what you're trying to say is that you miss being a little slut with your other slut chums.
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You need to remember and keep his feelings in mind here, although you might feel a little unsure you did make a commitment to him. So talk to him, and if you still feel like just friends do what you think is best. But at least give him a small chance to give a voice too.
It is only fair. Relationships are 50 50. Everything is two ways.
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