Hey, im 16 years old and ive just had my prom, ive had a girlfriend for 3 months now and i thought i loved her, until i saw the girl i have been friends with since we were 4 and weve always fancied each other but she has had a idiot of a boyfriend until 4/5 month ago, on prom night i kissed her, this then led to sex, twice drunk and once sober, the next day my girlfriend was in school, and i couldnt stop myself from kissin the girl i had wanted for a long time. When i asked if she would start seeing me more she said she'd planned to have a break from relationships for the time being, which i thought was ok but then i realised over the past few weeks she had been tellin me who she had been kissing and bla bla, this irritated me enough already! but then after prom i cant stand the thought of her kissing anybody but me! If i finish my girlfriend and have to wait for the other girl, i know ill end up in a relationship again.........HELP ME!

this isnt really very fair on your girlfriend is it???
finish it with your girlfriend because a relationship is about wanting to be with that person not about thinking about somebody else everytime you kiss your crrent girlfriend etc.
and how do you know you'll end up in an another relationshp?
if you serioslii want this other girl that you've known since you were 4 then you wunt end up in another relationship
wait for her
she'll soon come round if she see's you're waiting for her

You don't go with two girls at the same time, how would you feel if some girl did the same as you've done to you?
And if you want her that much, you'll wait for her regardless of how long she wants to wait for.
Bastard.

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Meh, there young, isn't like it's anything serious.

I'd say just have fun. Jealousy is just what a normal person would feel, i wouldnt worry about it too much, It's your decision really, you can stay with your girlfriend, and be jealous whenever you see the other girl with another bloke.

You could just carry on with that your doing now. Or you could get with the girl you like, be in a realtionship with her, but who knows you may get jealous when you see your current girlfriend with another boy.

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