I met this lad about 3 months ago at a party, we got on really well and swapped numbers. For the first 2 months it was great, he would phone me just asking how my day had been etc.. and i was really happy. Also we would meet up and he has taken me out a couple of times. At the end of the year he has to go away to play football so from the start he talked openly saying he really likes me + wishes things could be different but he cant have a serious relationship because it wouldnt be fair on either of us. Then about 3 weeks ago he has suddenly stopped phoning me and very rarely texts me. I know i should think that was the end of it but i really like him and want something to be there before he moves. is this a good idea?? sorry its so long xx