Ok so im 14 and a guy i've been with a few girls, although i have an attraction to one of my best friends, a guy. The problem NO ONE knows about this, I have no clue how to tell if im gay or not. Theres only one of my friends, male, that im attracted to and its not like... totally atracted to him its just like a feeling but it might mean something i dont know. I dont see how theres any way to find out if these feelings mean anything, i would really not want to talk to my parents about this, they would understand but still it would be very weird. I cant completely feel safe talking to my friends and i wouldnt want to. The only person i trust with something like this would be my friend, who im talking about, and that would be weird. I have no idea how to tell if this means anything. Uggghhh.

If you don't fancy any other guys then it probably is just a phase I went through the same thing at 14. I wouldn't worry too much about it but even if you are gay it really doesn't matter people are probably a lot more understanding than you think. Why don't you try and talk to the boy about it.... if you feel comfortable that he's not gonna take the piss or anyfing.

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Hey, don't stress. It's totally natural to have a 'crush' on someody of the same sex even if you are straight. We did this topic in a class once. Also if this guy has a good personality then you just might be attracted to him this way. Isn't it weird how a girl can say another girl is pretty but a guy can't say the same for a guy without being called gay? It doesn't mean men don't think they look attractive but for some godforsaken reason are afraid to say it. If you are gay you will find out in your own time. Best of luck.

your still young so its probably nothing, you may be confusing this attraction with friendship. many people are attracted to their friends and are confused to what this means, and it is usually nothing for you to worry about. you will be able to understand your feelings more as you get older, you would be able to see clearer and know whats really going on. and even if you are gay you will realise how understanding the modern world can now be.

if you were also genuinely attracted to the girls, and this is the only guy you've ever had feelings for, its likely you're straight and its just this one. if you have feelings for other guys too, you might be bi, and if you haven't really had feelings for the girls but tend to be attracted to guys... you get the gist :p either way, it's fine, and it's probably best to wait and see what happens? and if you can't find a friend to talk to, you could always try cousins or something similar.

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It's ok, it might just be a phase, as it is just one person. It's normal for teens to experiment or have random unexplainable 'crushes'
-And if you do have feelings for someone, why must you slap a label on it?
It's the 21st century and there's no need for people to be categorized into 'Gay' or 'Bi', Just be yourself, and see how things turn out, there's no pressure to decide just yet, so you may as well carry on as normal and see what happens, chances are it is just a phase and you will come out the other side just fine!

Ok first, are you sure it isn't just a 'wow we're close thing' ? And if you really thing that you are interested in him in that wayy you owe it to him to at least mention it, you are afterall friends. . . .