I've been hanging round with a group of friends who are all U.K size's 4/6 i'm the only one whos a U.K size 8 is this fat? I feel like i'm really fat compared to them and they also say that i need to lose weight. They don't eat anything so i started doing the same but once when i gave into temptation 3 of them took me to the girl's toilets and sat me down on the toilet seat and forced it into my mouth. I started choking but they told me i had to eat it now because i was a fat bitch so i did as they said. Another time, one of them was having a big sleepover because their parents were away for the weekend so i went along but halfway through the night when we all got changed and were in our pajamas they told me to lie down on the bed stomach down so i did thinking we were goin to play a silly game or something but then they all started slapping my legs and my chanting fat fat go away come back another day. I nearly started crying but stopped myself as i didn't want them to think i was a cry baby. Part of me feels like they're helping me lose the weight because the're my friends but another part of me feels like they might be bulying me slightly. Which one is it?

Yes, these are the type of friends i only wish i could have...

What do you think?

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Well, if they are disrespecting you as a person, DO NOT try to reason with them, dont try and see their good side.
If someone is pissing you off, you tell them to fuck right off, stand up for yourself , its the only way to do it.

And if they don't fuck right off, kick em in the cunt to be honest, so what if they beat the crap outta you afterwards? they wont insult you to your face again.

Be aggressive and swift, don't let assholes like that ruin your childhood, i used to be like that, but then i stopped taking the bullshit.

You can still be a nice person, just one that doesnt get fucked over by less confident more stereotypically attractive people, we are all equally valid.

You Are NOT Fat At All!! I Would Love To Be A Size 8 Again! But Now Im A Size 10/12! If Anything Then Its Your Friends Who Are Too Skinny! Just Call Them Anorexic Fuckwits! I Hate People Like That! Because My Lil Sister Used To Get Bullied By People Sayin Shes Fat!

So Just Tell Them To Back Off!! And You Should Really Get Yourself Some New Friends Mate!!

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I know you don't want to hear this but you have to get some new friend's I am a size 10 and people say i have fat legs. People think im bothered because i wear tights (even in summer ) but im not. But you must be ,i would hate for this to happen to me . Try to think of someone else you can hang around with. But if you have to hang around with them next time they try it stand up and say you need to treat me with some respect, im supposed to be your friend and if you do these kind of things to me if you are real mates. If that doesnt work start saying that they are too thin and pointing out their impurity's and if they say something just say now you know how i feel.
Hope this help's, and hope you sort out your problem.

Your so called "friends" are demended skinny stupid people! Their too thin! No one is meant to be size 4/6. I'm size 12! And I'm not tall either so I have a bit of a belly and thighs that wobble a bit but I'd much rather be size 12 and get toeat whatever I like than be size 4/6 and basically be starving myself to stay that skinny. Plus men prefer curves, not bones!

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im not bein funny but ur frends have problems

size 8 is not at all fat!!!

to me it sounds like they think theyr helping u. but they really arnt
if i were u id stay well clear of them
as even u are begining to question wether u are fat or not, which as a size 8 is ridiculous
honestly these girls are messed up and they will bring you down aswel
eating disorders are awful things to develop something that few people fully recover from and its this sort of behaviour that causes them

for your own sake, find some new friends
they need help and i think theyl probs drag you down with them before you can help them
as selfish as you may think it is you need to think of urself in this
if their behaviour effects you then you are not guna be strong enuf to sort them out


and remember u are DEFO not fat!!!

You are NOT fat.No way are you fat, in fact I think these girls have either got serious issues with how they look themselves or they are just using you so they have someone to pick on, and either way you should try to make new friends.Point out how this is making you feel because friends should NEVER bring you that close to tears, they are what I'd call bullies.
Hope you can sort this out soon xx