Hey girl im with you on that one, ive been with my boyfriend for 1year n 3months and mi first boyfriend is now my best friend, he has jus come back from a 2year holiday and says he still likes me. Now problems have come up but i can help you on how to deal with it.
Firstly...if you really like your boyfriend, any problems your ex trys to stir up to break u two up, will jus show how much of a friend he really is.
2nd...if he really does feel for you in a way he jut can't control then, kee your distance from him for a while so maybe he can get over you
3rd....if u dont have feelings for yr ex and u got strong fellings for yr bf, let yr ex noe, tell him straight how it is.. tough love, that way he knows your position and he noes u wont change your mind and that he cnt change your mind and he wil give up and remain friends.
4th.. if u have feelins for yr ex again then u gotta consider who u like more, yr ex or yr bf, also if the reason u 2 broke up was bad, then u shud think if get back with him it could happen again.
Hope i helped x
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