Heya people and thank you for actually clicking this post. I just hope that you take your time to read this and then leave a reply with some advice.

I'm 16 and sure of my sexuality. I'm bisexual. In my first year at high school (between the ages of 11 and 12) I looked at girls in a different way.
In my second year I felt like I could in time love another girl and later in that year I found a girl in my school who said she was Bisexual. We got together and we had a relationship for two months. It ended when she had to move.
Back then I Used to question my sexuality.

Now that Iv'e left school and am starting college I'm sure that I am a bisexual. My problem is my boyfriend. He means alot to me and I feel that i want to tell him about my sexuality. But what is putting me off is what happened recently. I decided to play it cool incase I got a bad reaction and said 'What would you say if I told you I was Bisexual?'. He reaction was bad as he went all cold on me and didnt reply.. There was silenece for a minute or two and then he changed the subject.

Please can you help? How can I tell my boyfriend I'm Bisexual when I'm scared of his reaction and possibly losing him?

Thank you in advance

Anonymous Girl x

Offer him a three some with a girl...bound to get a thumbs up from him (And more).

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if you're scared of losing him, and judging by his reaction before not reasonably, you should probably try to get him used to the idea first. try talking about homosexuality and see if his reaction is just where bi is concerned, because if so you might just have to get him used to the idea that you can be attracted to someone regardless of gender, or if he just doesn't like the idea of people being attracted to someone the same gender as them, because they're two separate things. but if you try and get him used to the idea, maybe by talking about it in general, or even watching films with bisexuality (which also might be a good starting point for a conversation.) and when you do tell him, tell him you don't want a relationship with a girl, or an open relationship, you just wanted him to know because he means so much to you.

good luck!

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The way I see it, other boys are a threat to your girl, so if you add girls as well, then he will feel more threatened.

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why does it matter? you're dating him so you're attracted to him, it's not like you're going to be hooking up with other girls. how i look at it is if you're dating a guy then you're straight, and if you're dating a girl then you're lesbian. it makes sense in my head.

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As long as your faithful and honest, it shouldn't matter. If you are straight.. you'd still look at other guys (lookie, no touchie ) but when you are bisexual you just look at more, just do the same amout of no touchie. (makes sense in MY head)

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It actually seems like you're bored with you're boyfriend and looking at finding a girl.

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No im not bored with my boyfriend and looking for a girl its just when you're with someone you usually tell each other about yourselves.

Anyways, this issue is resolved now. I did tell him and he was cool with it (:

Unfortunately, we aren't together anymore for reasons i dont wish to explain here but it had nothing to do with this (:

Thanks all. I'll bear this in mind for the future.

xo;;