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Old 21-10-2007, 05:38 PM
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Right this is something that has bugged me for some time and was just topped off by two things. The other night after a massive arguement with a parent I walked out and went to meet my other parent, as I was doing so at like 11 at night a guy walking by wolf whistled, not only was it in the most unoppotune moment it was dark outside and I was alone and it acutally made me quite scared. I was then reading an article in a magazine the other day and it commented on men wolf whistling at women and how it made women feel so my question is

Does it make you feel sexy to be wolf whistled at or scared and for men the same thing cause I don't mean it to be all towards the women's perspective.

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Old 21-10-2007, 05:40 PM
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If I wasn't such a cynic, I'd think it was flattering. I certainly wouldn't consider it threatening; an attacker/rapist won't warn you first with a nice indiscrete whistle.
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Old 21-10-2007, 05:41 PM
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I used to find it intimidating and embarrasing to be wolf whilstled at. But then I realised that in the vast majority of cases they mean no harm, so now I just see it as a compliment.
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Old 21-10-2007, 05:42 PM
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I'm sure it's just a bit of fun. Kind of means a woman is attractive. Just depends on the sense of humour of the woman. Like if she could take it as a compliment, or whether it would offend her.

I don't really see how it could be intimidating or anything. If some man wants to, for example attack you and rape you, he's not gonna wolf whistle at you first is he?

Personally I've never wolf whistled at anyone probably due to what I said above, as i'm not a great judge of how someone is feeling, and I might get abuse thrown at me maybe.
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Old 21-10-2007, 08:40 PM
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I can't go out and not be wolf-whistled/ called something nice across the street/ have some lads beep their car horns at me. Ever. It's just a bit of fun, if anything I like it, let's me know I've still got it . I usually smile back, it is a compliment for Christ's sake, we're just young and enjoying ourselves.
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Old 21-10-2007, 08:45 PM
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I just say
"Heeeey babaaay, put those lips to good use and come ovah here."

Well I used to until it was a fat sweaty builder.
I use that selectively now.
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Old 21-10-2007, 09:05 PM
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Wolf Whistling puts girls off like ... 99.9% of the time =\
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Old 21-10-2007, 09:07 PM
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puts me off... lol... but apparently I'm a minority. I would prefer like a nice comment. Also slapping of the bum should be restrained to guys who have been proven to be fit, not those who think they are.
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Old 21-10-2007, 09:12 PM
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I'd break a dudes arm if i seen him slap a random girls ass =\
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Old 21-10-2007, 09:14 PM
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WHY?
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Old 21-10-2007, 09:15 PM
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its disrespectful
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Old 21-10-2007, 09:16 PM
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Omg only if you take it like that
Everyone should be allowed to touch everybody else
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Old 21-10-2007, 09:33 PM
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I hate it when guys grope/slap my ass. I'm like, its mine HANDS OFF. How would you like it if I grabbed you by the balls?
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Old 21-10-2007, 09:35 PM
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Omg I love touching boyzzzz, if they are uggo and wolf whistle just give them the finger tell them were to go :]
It's only good when they beep the horn if they stop afta lykkk
& for touching the arse, tis good if they are fit if they are uggo just slap them :]]]]
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Old 21-10-2007, 09:37 PM
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haha Not grabbed slapped... they would surely cry then. I think what Markeh said is what should happen to guys who slap random girls ass' though I'd probably do it myself ratIher than let somebody else. I really hate it. I don't think it is free love, but I'm not a touchy felly person anyway.
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Old 21-10-2007, 09:39 PM
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I hateeee this!
It's sleazy.

If me and my mates ever go out Friday or Saturday nights, we end up having to walk through the dodgy part of town, which I dont mind when there's a load of us, but there's always a few guys that whistle or say something totally unecessary.

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Old 21-10-2007, 10:04 PM
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It makes me go URGH.
End of story.

If you like how someone looks go talk to them or summat. :/

And if people touch my arse I'm nearly sick. Proper.
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Old 21-10-2007, 10:12 PM
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oh boy, like people touch your asses.. walking down the street? ha, i've never had that happen to me before.

I dunno how i feel about being "wolf Whistled" at. I had to look up what wolf whistle was on youtube. they have videos for everything. ha.

I think its okay sometimes, like if the girl is really hot for sure, but i don't like when guys do that around bars and stuff where there is just a bunch of slutty drunk girls, and horny drunk boys.
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Old 21-10-2007, 10:28 PM
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Oh wow
I didnt think it was such a big deal
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Old 21-10-2007, 10:57 PM
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Shouldn't arse grabbing be reserved for your partner...?
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Old 22-10-2007, 04:48 AM
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hhaa i agree ^
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Old 22-10-2007, 12:36 PM
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yeh I agree with that too. x
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Old 22-10-2007, 02:36 PM
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i dont mind it if im in the right mood.. if im in a foul mood i keep my head down cursing them under my breath, but if im in a particularly good mood, i just smile... doesn't really bother me, my mate gets petrified if it happens to her..
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