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09-07-2008, 10:56 PM
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Bullies!!!=[
Ooooh grrrr!!!!
Bullies get on my nerves so much!
Who else doesn't like them?
I think everyone don't unless you are a bully. Tbh I don't think anyone does enough about it, people think you don't get hurt by one little word like 'fat' for example, which i get called mostly, I would say i am not thin but i am not fat, fat is when you can't move lol. Getting bullied over the past few years( almost all my life) has made me realize what a cruel nasty world it is out there and I just think people should get there act together and accept us for who we are. We can't all look like supermodel's, even though that would be amazing lol. If we were all the same the world would be a boring place tbh, I am different and i love it my mates call me mad but hey maybe i am and i like the way i am no one can change me and i dont wanna change so if i dont wanna then i dont have to for some idiot's that would rather bully than get educated....I got suspended 3 times for being provoked into fighting, tbh i dont think my head teacher took both our storys on and just choose to take the easy option and suspend the most vulnerable one, me! I can be very very emotional as i have Manic Depression, which is one minute i can be really hyper next i could be wanting to kill myself so its really serious and i dont think people know what bullying actually does to people. Anyways give me your opinions and please dont start any debates, everyone has there opinion! Thanks
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10-07-2008, 01:29 AM
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10-07-2008, 10:51 AM
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You make some valid points, but it was hard to see them in that gigantic run on sentence. I also physically felt sick after reading that post, talk about way to cheerful.
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10-07-2008, 12:04 PM
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thanks lol
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11-07-2008, 02:21 AM
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Ooh that killed my eyes lol!
On to your original question: I completely agree, bullying is wrong on all terms. Theres no positive thing about it at all. I also think its unfair for you to get suspended because you stood up to your bullies.
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11-07-2008, 01:26 PM
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Thank you=] Please keep your opinions coming! if you agree or disagree.
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12-07-2008, 04:05 AM
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anyone who disagrees that bullies are bad are probably really worrying...
i'm lucky, my current school's so open and everyone's nice and no bullying, but i got bullied at my primary school, and i know kids can be mean so i don't blame anyone really but it meant i had almost no friends, which sucked. so yes, ANTI-BULLYING!
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12-07-2008, 04:12 AM
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12-07-2008, 08:53 PM
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Wow thanks guys =]
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17-07-2008, 12:39 AM
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To point out, most bullies are just reacting because they themselves are sensitive as you are. I used to be a pretty bad bully, especially hanging around my old group of friends, but I never thought about what I was doing and only wanted the validation of my peers. Once I realised what I had done, I always regretted it. I had such low self-esteem that my common sense was overruled by my want of being liked. I think most bullies are like this, it isn't fair to judge them so quickly and brush aside as cruel and evil. Their actions can't be condoned of course, but try a little understanding and maybe they will catch on.
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17-07-2008, 08:20 PM
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I try to understand them and i always am nice to everyone. But they just dont give me the time of day, and why bully just because you have insecurities! Talk to someone like i have always done, well maybe i can do that because i am abit TOO nice! and just really vulnerable, but i am sensitive and i dont go around calling people bulldog fat etc. or put bricks through peoples windows!
whats the point doing it. Just shows they have alot of time on their hands. Btw i am not aiming any of that and you^^
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18-07-2008, 02:59 AM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Twinkleees
I try to understand them and i always am nice to everyone. But they just dont give me the time of day, and why bully just because you have insecurities! Talk to someone like i have always done, well maybe i can do that because i am abit TOO nice! and just really vulnerable, but i am sensitive and i dont go around calling people bulldog fat etc. or put bricks through peoples windows!
whats the point doing it. Just shows they have alot of time on their hands. Btw i am not aiming any of that and you^^
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Some don't want to talk about it, its something that is seen by general society as awkward and weak. Imagine if a group of your friends found out that you were always scared they never liked you and that you had such low self esteem. There are ways of releasing personal issues, and not all of them can just talk to someone about it. They act out, hurt others in an attempt to cover up their own pain and insecurity. It isn't pleasant but understanding why people do this is a key to making peace with them.
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22-07-2008, 01:25 PM
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But its hard to make peace with someone when they make you feel suicidal...or make you feel bad about yourself.
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23-07-2008, 07:56 AM
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Sometimes I get bullied at work when my boss "brushes" against me. x(
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23-07-2008, 12:13 PM
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I wish i could brush against you Minime-pie ):
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23-07-2008, 12:13 PM
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Ok, that sounded a bit too gay. I take that back )':
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23-07-2008, 12:44 PM
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Too late.
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23-07-2008, 10:24 PM
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Hahaha madness
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23-07-2008, 11:14 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by EvigPint
To point out, most bullies are just reacting because they themselves are sensitive as you are. I used to be a pretty bad bully, especially hanging around my old group of friends, but I never thought about what I was doing and only wanted the validation of my peers. Once I realised what I had done, I always regretted it. I had such low self-esteem that my common sense was overruled by my want of being liked. I think most bullies are like this, it isn't fair to judge them so quickly and brush aside as cruel and evil. Their actions can't be condoned of course, but try a little understanding and maybe they will catch on.
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I've been bullied pretty much most my school life (From year 4 to 9/10 I would say), and most of the time its because they are hiding something about themselves etc, I've always been pretty tall, and not skinny (Not really overweight either), and because I had low self-esteem , I couldn't stand up for myself.
To the bit in bold, I think it is fair, they made my life (And I'm sure others) hell for years, it only stopped (really) when I got pushed too far and hit him over the head with one of those micro scooter things xD
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05-08-2008, 11:15 AM
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Guess im not the only one who had to get psychical:/
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