my boyfriend wanked himself off then put his hands in me so i cud of like been pregnant so i went to the clinic and got the pill so i wudnt get pregnant and i had it in my room and my mam found it and she thinks i have had sex with him but i havent but she wont beleive me when i said that i havent did it but i cant exactly tell her that after he wanked himself off he put his hands in me can i ?
but i sed to her tht i cant tell her about coz cz thn ill be tellin her utha pplz buisness wich is just shockin and she sed to me well if itz not urz thn y did u have it hidden in your bedroom insted ov *th utha person* nd a sed a dunno she now shes bein propa bitchy sayin well do you think im stupid or something!
PLEASE HELP ME I DONT KNOW WHAT I CAN DO
Any Help Will Be Apprecciated
thanx
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One thread was quite enough.

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Does your boyfriend know you're looking for 'fit lads'?

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Didnt you know whoring your self over the internet is the coolest thing ever!

But Im not sure what her question is? She seemed to have covered all bases

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"BabiiGiirl.."
I always worry about that - although that exact hasnt quite happend to me.
Be careful - your only 13 and have a long way to go yet.
When i first got fingerd.. i was 15, i left it a while and didnt want anything too soon. i got worried because something i was unsure of happend & i had to tell my mum.
So yeah.. i told my mum what he had done, bareing in mind i was 15, not 13. thats the disadvantage.
Telling her stopped me worrying, i douibt anything would have happend as easy as that, but u done the right thing to make sure. you'll be okay aslong as u take the pill.
& with your mum, just get on with it, youve told her the truth and thats all u can do. i dont know what else to say really.. because u cant do anything else apart from telling the truth - tell her you arent that stupid, and how your too young. it might make her think =]
good luck, hope everything goes okay & be careful xx

Why would you wank infront of your girlfriend then finger her

That's just weird, crack on with the proper stuff lol

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It is just something that you have to work out with your mum. She knows something's up now and you may as well just come out and tell her the truth. Tell her you haven't had sex, that you're not stupid but that you did something else which you maybe now regret and that you were just being careful by taking the pill. Tell her that she should appreciate that you were smart enough to take precautions at least.

As for the boyfriend, please please don't do anything you don't feel ready for. If you don't want him touching you in that way for whatever reason, make sure he knows and understands that so it won't happen again. You must most certainly voice your worries about sperm potentially being on his hands before he fingers you. And if you decide to do it again make sure his hands are clean.

And I'm not suggesting you do it, but if you do have sex, make sure you use a condom. The morning after pill is not totally failsafe, and should only be used as a last resort.

Good luck with your Mum!

--Pascha--

hi, where r u from n how old r u?

Does that matter, and do you actually think they will ever read this again?

No?

Thought not.

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