and i have no idea what to tell my friends.
i don't want them to think i'm attracted to every girl that walks by or i'm gonna make a move on one of them. but i can't keep it inside of me anymore because it's a part of me.
has anyone went though this?

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don't tell them is my gut instinct...it may just be a phase.

having said that its quite an 'in' thing to be bi, so i dunno

It is probably just a phase... you're 15. Every 15 year old wants to fuck everything that moves.

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<3Becky

haha maybe...but i dunno it's just so weird.
i've been having these thoughts for a while and last night i was like omg i'm bi.
and i think i might have a crush on one of my best friends. anyway u look at it it's a disaster waiting to happen.

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Honestly, the majority of my friends are bi. And I say all of them have experimented with the same sex at some point. It's not exactly uncommon these days. So don't think your abnormal or anything.

But yeah listen to sarcy Markeh [xD] And maybe just wait it out. Could be a phase. =]

You don't have to slap a label on yourself.

Sarcy*

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<3Becky

Its corrected. You smelly scottish fiend.

*Licks*

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<3Becky

You could just be curious..I have kissed a ton of girls in truth or dare and that..and my friends know about it..and they dont treat me any differently..
at all..
And they're really not into all that stuff..
If they're your friends they'll understand =] xo

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LOL

I think truth or dare is a bit different from actually being bi. I though at one point I may be, then decided that I wasn't and I've kissed many of my friends during spin the bottle and shiznit. If you are you are; good for you, but don't go racing to tell everybody atm because it may backfire if you ever change your mind.

Having a crush on a girl or two and being bi are two completely different things.

very true ^ people never think of it that way. i fancy one girl a lot so kabammm i'm gonna date that bitch.

I think girls tend to like other girls quite a bit anyway. They all seem to hug each other, comfort each other and comment on each other's hair etc.

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I don't actually think there is a "sexuality". I don't consider myself to be any sexuality - I'm attracted to character traits, not a sexuality. If all my "perfect wants" are found in a woman and not a man, sobeit. I won't discard them purely based on gender.

^ but what if nice boobs is one of my perfect wants?

Some guys have very nice boobs Samba! Don't be so narrowminded! You'll just have to ignore the accompanying beer belly.

Yeh for example the guy in Markeh's avatar. Great pair.

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Which is why I say that I believe that a great deal of people don't have a "sexuality", they have elements that they are attracted to.

That is Markeh himself. Dont be mean!

Boobs are an element that is unique to females. I like other elements unique to females too. Defining a group of likes that one group has and another inherently doesn't is saying you like that group more than the other.

Though I probably do agree that sexuality is nurture, I don't think you can use the argument for a developed adult.

I think you're actually agreeing with my point in a roundabout way. oO;

but what if all the perfect traits you find in a bloke are there but you only like fanny? you're screwed then.

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