not a huge bother in my life lol... but interested in your opinions
recently met a young man I rather like! we've been texting and meeting and all that malarky, and last night we kissed for the first time. It was all going so well till the kiss. He was SO BAD.
not like slobbery kinda thing...my friends who saw were even like 'you two looked so cute kissing!'
but hes kinda....kinky! I don't know how else to put it! he bit my lip and it hurt so much I even have a bruise today

Do I just hold out and see if he gets better? cos hes great in many many other ways mwahaha

would you ditch someone cos of their kissing?

I can't wait to meet him again but I would prefer he didnt BRUISE ME lol

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"Sometimes I like to put smarties tubes on my cats legs so it walks like a robot"

You can stop him without hurting his feelings or pissing him off.

Next time he does it, say "ouch" and act like it really hurt. Don't act pissed off with him just give him the puppy dog eyes and say "why did u do that for".

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Aww if ya start datin you will be find out what each other likes and dislikes!

OR, instead of making him feel self concious about his kissing by reacting negatively...

You can simply redirect him. Kiss him a certain way and tell him you like that, and when he does something you like tell him. And if the biting doesn't stop, bite him back

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I like that!

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"I love it when you kiss me softly" Dropped into a convo works a charm.

Or when he's butchered your lips again say "Are you trying to kiss me or tear a bit off for later you fucking freak?"

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<3Becky

i hate kissing anyway.

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OMG ITS YOU. YOU'RE BACCCCK YAYA.
do you remember me?
My name is chloe ya =)

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Awh I hate it when buff people can't kiss. It would really put me off coz I'm not blunt enough to get them to change lol

Why?

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I wouldn't ditch a guy 'cause of how he kissed, I'd just teach him how I like to be kissed. I think next time he bites you should pull away and say 'ow', he'd definately get the message.

I've got rid of someone because they can't kiss. I think they say a girl can tell almost immediately whether they want to be with a bloke or not from the first kiss. I agree with that. Kissing is all part of the build up and chemistry, and if you don't enjoy it, it ruins other aspects.
Kerry how can you not like kissing?! I love it!

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