After the first date, another. I go for as many as it takes untill i can get them into a secluded place and try to get my end away.
As for getting them to your house, you musent be obvious about it. If a girl thinks she's going to your house for sex for the first time, it sets off this thing in their head where they can't because it will make them a "slag", even if they want go. I normally just invite them in for 10 mins so i can get a coat then just don't leave.
Another thing: never listen to a girls advice on dating. Ever wondered why so many people ask "what do women really want?" the reason this is such a hard question to answer is because most simply dont know.
You can find girls anywhere, but it's kinda hard going upto a girl and chatting her up if you aren't too confident.
If you are more specific about your problems i can give you some advice.
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