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Old 08-12-2007, 06:16 PM
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got pregnant at the age you are now..like in any situation [one night stand etc..]

what would you do? Would you keep it? even if you werent ready?

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Old 08-12-2007, 06:21 PM
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I would keep it
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Old 08-12-2007, 06:35 PM
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I would at your age but right now I doubt I would
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Old 08-12-2007, 07:57 PM
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ya because i couldn't live with myself if i didn't.
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Old 08-12-2007, 07:57 PM
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Your at a good age too..My cousin had a baby at your age.
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Old 08-12-2007, 08:11 PM
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With the person I'm with presently, then no. I know him, he would break. Plus he doesn't want anything to do with our kid.
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Old 08-12-2007, 08:49 PM
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I wouldn't know what to do.

I'd be so afraid.
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Old 08-12-2007, 08:53 PM
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Awh thats cute.
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Old 08-12-2007, 10:13 PM
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I think I would but idk...I have my whole life ahead of me...I dunno if I could get rid of it tho :/
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Old 08-12-2007, 10:31 PM
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I dont think Id keep it no. Without no money, no house I wouldn't wanna bring a kid up without that.

I want to have funnnnnnn
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Old 08-12-2007, 10:33 PM
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I wouldn't keep it, there's not really any question about that. I have my entire life ahead of me and it wouldn't be fair to bring an 'unwanted' (although that sounds a bit harsh) child into the world.
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Old 08-12-2007, 10:38 PM
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I am against abortion, and once i had gone through carrying it for 9 months i dont think i could adopt it out, so as long as my boyfriend didnt ditch me as soon as he found out, i would keep it.
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Old 08-12-2007, 11:03 PM
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I've never been a baby person at all, I'd just be really scared that something was growing inside me.
I dunno.
I know someone who had a baby early, just after she turned 14, and even though she loves her to pieces it's messed up her future badly.
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Old 09-12-2007, 12:34 AM
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I'd keep it. It would be hard, but I know I'd love it the best that I could.
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Old 09-12-2007, 01:12 AM
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I wouldn't keep it, I'm not mature enough or responsible enough.
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Old 09-12-2007, 01:14 AM
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I like how all these not mature or responsible enough kids are having sex.

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Old 09-12-2007, 01:40 AM
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im mature and responsible enough to use protection.
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Old 09-12-2007, 01:46 AM
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I've done a lot of thinking about this lately, and now I think I'd probably keep the baby however much it would 'ruin' my life.
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Old 09-12-2007, 09:06 PM
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I wouldn't keep it. Me and my boyfriend have spoke about this and we've both said that we've seen how hard it's been for others that have had kids early, and it's not something either of us would want to go through.
I'm not stable enough in any way to raise a child, and it's not something I want to do for a good few years yet, when I'm more settled and ready.
To have a kid now wouldn't be fairer on me or the baby, so it'd be kinder to not have it at all.
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Old 09-12-2007, 10:43 PM
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I'd keep it. My parents would look after it whilst I went to college, then I'd come home and take over.
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Old 09-12-2007, 10:57 PM
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^ Yah. Same here.
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Old 09-12-2007, 11:21 PM
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Id like to live a bit more first... explore new things and places etc before settling down to have a baby..
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