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15-04-2008, 06:14 PM
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How long do you wait girls?
Before letting a boy in your panties for the first time in a relationship?
I know it depends on them and stuff, but like, generally.
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15-04-2008, 06:27 PM
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Shark
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Join Date: 11 Mar 2005
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At least 2 hours
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15-04-2008, 06:46 PM
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Shark
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Join Date: 24 Oct 2005
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til marriage. lolz.
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so so what?
i’m still a rock star
i got my rock moves
and i don’t need you
and guess what?
i’m having more fun
and now that we’re done
i’m gonna show you tonight
i’m alright, i’m just fine
and you’re a tool
so so what?
i am a rock star
i got my rock moves
and i don’t want you tonight
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15-04-2008, 06:51 PM
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Bear
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Join Date: 24 May 2006
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Lol PF.
That's cool Kerry. My friend's bf is no sex before marriage and she's a horny bitch but they still work.
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15-04-2008, 10:45 PM
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It depends if I feel like I'm gonna be with them a long time. Cause you get that feeling of really liking them you know what I mean
And every boy I've done it with I've gone out with for atleast 5 month no matter how fast it was I let him in my pants.
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15-04-2008, 11:52 PM
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Join Date: 24 Aug 2005
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When it feels right :] My best mate has a BF and we always meet up, like her him me and his best mate, and we like do 'bf & gf' things and I aint slept with him yet which is really good for me! We aint together like but yano :D I've kissed him and give him a blowie etc but it just don't feel right yet :D I'm proud yo!
But yeah, when it feels right :D
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16-04-2008, 12:12 AM
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Bear
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Join Date: 23 Jan 2006
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If we are talking sex.. I only really have one circumstance, but I waited almost 3 years. I wasn't at the age to even risk having children. Therefore, I just didn't do it.
as for everything else.. a month? a week? ha. i dunno.
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16-04-2008, 12:16 AM
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At least 4 days before calling them. Ya know some bitch asked me in a club if I had myspace. I was like na, but you can have my number tho. I mean what the fuck
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16-04-2008, 07:49 AM
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Join Date: 24 Aug 2005
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hahah PF. yer it really does depend, one guy stayed at my house for 2 weeks and didnt get any my current b/f got some on our 2nd date!
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16-04-2008, 12:48 PM
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Bear
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Join Date: 24 May 2006
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I mean actual sex btw everyone ^.^
It's all well random.
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16-04-2008, 01:39 PM
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Join Date: 11 Mar 2005
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It's definitely different when it's your first time though! You're more inclined to wait a lot longer. Once you've popped though...
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16-04-2008, 03:44 PM
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I don't know, I'd like to say between 1 - 6 months.
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16-04-2008, 04:14 PM
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Bear
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Join Date: 24 May 2006
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I think I'm gonna say a month. Lol.
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16-04-2008, 04:42 PM
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Join Date: 26 Aug 2005
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It varies really from weeks to a few months..
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16-04-2008, 05:14 PM
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Bear
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I really don't get it when people say they're going to 'make their partner wait' or whatever. As in they're ready for it but they're going to stretch it out for some power thing. A relationship can't be healthy then.
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16-04-2008, 05:33 PM
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I suppose most guys come and have sex with girls then leave them.
If they can wait, then that proves that they want the girl more than just for sex.
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16-04-2008, 06:27 PM
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I haven't yet, but I think I'd wait until it felt like a natural progression rather than saying 'Oh, well give it a month and then you can shag me rotten.' And on that note, I love the expression 'shag me rotten' but it's never really appropriate to use it. 
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16-04-2008, 11:07 PM
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Join Date: 05 Sep 2004
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I have never slept with someone whilst in a relationship.
That sounded really slaggish, I have only slept with one person and was extremely drunk and we wern't together.
Because of this I couldn't really say depends how much I liked and trusted them.
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how could this be done by such a smiling sweetheart
oh your so naive yes so,
such a ugly thing someone so beautiful
and everytime your on his side
i know she knows I'm not fond of asking
true or false it maybe she still out to get me
i know she knows I'm not fond of asking...
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17-04-2008, 04:25 PM
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Elephant
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Join Date: 10 Mar 2006
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I waited like a year and a half to do ANYTHING. then again it did take me a year to get off with the person too. i guess i am just fridgid :p
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17-04-2008, 09:57 PM
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Join Date: 02 Jan 2005
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Took 2 years with my first time
Less than a month with everyone else, and that - in my opinion - is why none of them stuck around.
With my current BF, it's been almost a month and half and we just started fooling around in that sense of the term.
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24-04-2008, 06:15 PM
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Bacteria
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i waited three months which i thought was okay.
it worked out for me tho coz am stull with him a year and a half later lols.
but if it was my first time or watever i would probs not think about how long to wait & stuff.
you will know when you are ready.
everyones diffrent.
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26-04-2008, 03:03 AM
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Cat
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Longest i've ever waited was a week, I normally end up ending the relationship if they start going "no you have to wait untill so and so" makes me feel like a little boy.
Then again if i was really into the girl i suppose i'd wait a couple weeks maybie? Doubt it though.
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27-04-2008, 02:35 PM
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Elephant
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Lol oh dear when it comes to the first sexual time with anyone I've been with, it always seems a bit slaggish..
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