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Old 24-04-2008, 10:59 PM
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is known for cheating on every boy she's ever been with.

Now she's going out with a good friend of mine who is also my bf's best friend. They've only been going out for like, a month and a half but are seriously into eachother already and are even arguing already.

She has a lot of issues which I don't feel comfortable going into but they affect pretty much everything she does. She's also known for loving a drink.

Everytime she's cheated on a guy it's been because they aregued and she's drunk and around drunken boys *rolls eyes*

I have said to her that if she cheats on my friend I'm actually gonna knock her out, I said fuck not talking to her, I'll actually beat her on the spot and god help me I will fuck her up.

If she does, this will mess EVERYTHING up, coz everyone knows everyone and is connected to someone in some way and she's going to do herself so much damage if she does.

There's nothing I can do though really is there.
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Old 24-04-2008, 11:01 PM
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Are you with her alot of the time? Like when she gets pissed? Just watch her enit!

What do they argue about? If they are with each other like 24/7 or summit stupid that's prob why they argue?
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Old 24-04-2008, 11:22 PM
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Quite a lot of the time, all of our mates watch her coz we know what she's like.

They argue coz he's been with quite a few people and she keeps finding out about one's that she knows lol. They're not with eachother that much actually.

I don't get them, they're well heated all the time.
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Old 24-04-2008, 11:25 PM
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Maybe they should just break it off before they fuck each others heads up enit, they're arguing about shit in the past that no one can change so it aint worth arguing about if you get me? Gotta learn to deal with it!

Not worth it tbh hmmm
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Old 24-04-2008, 11:29 PM
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It's not my place to say that to them!
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Old 24-04-2008, 11:36 PM
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Drop hints lol There aint nothing you can do tbf, just dont beat her down if she cheat lol 'cus then there will be loads of tension between your group enit
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Old 25-04-2008, 09:29 AM
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you shouldn't have to babysit your friend to prevent her being a slapper. tell her to grow up or find some new friends!!
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Old 26-04-2008, 03:07 AM
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Just tell her the situation, i would. You're all friends and if she's going to slag around she's going to fuck up a close group of friends, Tell her she can piss of if she's going to end up splitting friends up.

It's her responcibility to keep her legs closed.
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Old 26-04-2008, 03:49 PM
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Haha. Okay it turns out she suddenly has a problem with her bf blazing. Me and my bf and her bf were all blazing last night and she got annoyed and went and phoned her ex and was all blah blah I'm so crappy.

That pissed me off bare coz if she annoyed him and he phoned an ex she would have a break down. And a boy that she got with before is gonna be there tonight and she was like "oh you'll have to keep an eye on me haha!" to one of our other close mates.

There are only 4 of us going to this thing tonight and the other 2 are just as pissed with me, if she fucks up, she's seriously FUCKED up.

And btw, we've all told her the sitch, she doesn't listen to anyone.
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Old 26-04-2008, 04:03 PM
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wtf is blazing? I'm getting old lol.
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Old 26-04-2008, 04:09 PM
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Old 26-04-2008, 04:10 PM
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I think you don't like your friend or your jealous. What's it got to do with you what she does.
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Old 26-04-2008, 04:11 PM
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No I think she's trying to look out for a good friend of hers who's going with this girl.
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Old 26-04-2008, 04:16 PM
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No I think she's trying to look out for a good friend of hers who's going with this girl.
They are both her friends. They chose to get involved with each other, if she does cheat let them sort it out themselfs, it's got nothing to do with anyone else (maybe the person she cheated with). I hate people that get involved for the drama.
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Old 26-04-2008, 04:29 PM
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Good thing I don't care that you think that then.

He didn't know her reputation when he got with her.
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Old 27-04-2008, 03:31 PM
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Good thing I don't care that you think that then.

He didn't know her reputation when he got with her.
I never expected you to care...
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It's easy for people on the outside to say "Why should you care?" But the fact of the matter is, she cares because they're her friends. When you spend a long time with people, you become really close. And it's not so easy in that position to just say "I don't care" and walk away. There's nothing wrong with trying to help/protect the people you care about, but when it comes down to it, you just have to remember that you've done everything you can for them and then be there for them when they need a shoulder to cry on.
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