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i've found that if a guy will stop talking to a girl you think he's cheating on, he probably doesn't like her. it's when he refuses to stop talking to her that you should be worried (unless of course that girls a really good friend). from what you said before about her she just sounds like the slutty type and it's probably nothing to worry about. recently viewed files can be pretty messed up, mine sometimes has stuff that i haven't looked at in days. also remember that if he doesn't look at a lot of stuff on the computer really old stuff will stay on there. also it could mean that if its deleted he was grossed out by the pictures or something and deleted them, cause why would he delete those two but keep the others? i would just drop it and try to get over it cause boys seem to get pissed off if they think you don't trust them. just believe that he's not cheating but if more stuff comes up then start to keep your guard up. goodlcuk (:

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I found messages to girls from my boyfriend-at-the-time, that were really rude and suggestive and I told him it was over.

We were already on the brink of breaking up 'cause things were shit, basically in the same way you always describe with your bf.

Anyways the messages were on some shit site and were like "you and your tits look amazing babe" to some fat chick with her boobs out. I was like .... o.o

But yeah, I told him I didn't wanna be with him because he obviously didn't love me enough to be satisfied with just me and also because I felt like I shouldn't feel the need to look at his stuff but I did.

I also got the "you shouldn't be snooping" "you're a nosy bitch" shit.

Also, before this, I made an MSN account with a girls picture and starting chatting to him on it, and he was like "oh yeah, i'll come round and fuck you " etc and I was like...

So yeah, you could try tricking him to find out for sure if he's flirting with other girls, but it might just be me and my fucked up ways that thinks thats the best thing to do lol. Otherwise you'll never know what's really going on and will basically just have to close your eyes to the whole idea. But that's obviously really hard to do like you've found out.

Whatever you do, good luck <3 xxx

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Thank u both :]
Avery are you referring to Tommy?
And PF wtf that's so weird. You caught him red-handed ooo.

c.e. says:
you dont have to
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but you know
c.e. says:
that shit is still on my mind obv
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and its rele freaking me outtttt mayne
rt says:
ye
c.e. says:
well it was last night all nite but today i havent thot about it much
c.e. says:
butttt uuuuuuuuhhhhhhhhhhhdfh8dfhi
rt says:
it was from time ago
c.e. says:
so I thot whoever sent u that shower pic maybe u took me out of ur name because i dont know
rt says:
oh wtf
c.e. says:
the "showerr" and "mee" pics are what bother me!!
c.e. says:
the most
rt says:
i dnt know what tht was but it wasnt what you think
c.e. says:
cause u deleted them so maybe they were rele explicit
c.e. says:
and like what else could showerr be like im sure ur not interested in redecorating ur bathroom lol like rkjykry
c.e. says:
and the mee
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and iuno9 its killing me
rt says:
its nothing
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i dont flirt
rt says:
thered be noo point
c.e. says:
you honestly can't remember what those pictures are of?
rt says:
swear to anything
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noo clue
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i promise
c.e. says:
okayy
rt says:
i love you the same too
rt says:
as ever
rt says:
or more
c.e. says:

c.e. says:
i love you
rt says:
love you il call you one my way home
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but you better answer
rt says:
or ill never call again!!!!!!!!!!!!!\
rt says:
byee
c.e. says:
: o
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haha
rt says:
love you


I think we are okay now. I believe him.

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awh thats cute.
and yeah i was haha. and my friends been having problems with it too. it's just sketchh, like if my boyfriend was like STOP TALKING TO BRANDY i'd be like thats gay but okayy. well i wouldn't just submit but yeah i wouldn't be like WTF Y

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I had a similar problem withm ybf, though this lass was more stalkerish and he was typical boy thinkin thru his penis. She lives in Canada but she was sending him pics of her in her knickers to him. I already didn't like her cos of other reasons which i'v got over.
anyway, I was on his pc while he was at work and i was chattin to a mate and he sent me a song, I went into recieved files to find it and there was pics of her in her knickers. I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt and looked at the date on the pics but they were sent while we were together so I got really pissed off and upset, called my mate, I even packed my suitcase to go home cols I was only at his for 2 wks while his parents were on holiday.

But then I made a plan...

I left one of the pics enlarged on the screen with the properties box open and the date highlighted and left it to go on screensaver so when he went on the pc he'd see it instantly.
When he got in I was told him he was in big trouble and unless he did EXACTLY what I say then I'd scream and cry and go home.
Well he went upstairs and about 30secs later I heard him say "What do you want me to do?"
I got him to delete all pics of her, block her on msn, myspace anywhere like that, delete her email address, He even had her phone number (tho he did that before we got together) I made him delete everything about her and promise never to talk to her again and so far he hasnt.
I fully trust him, but our relationship is different to yours, he doesnt have a go at me for snooping thru his stuff and we almost never argue.

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Good on you Chloe for talking it out.

Don't play headgames, because most guys aren't good at them, and you could end up ruining what could be a VERY good thing.

Everyone who suggested using ploys and such to "catch" him, to be honest, I'm a tad disappointed. I thought you folks had a bit more integrity than that.

Children play games. Adults have mature adult conversations when problems arise. Kudos to you Chloe for trying to work things out the right way :D

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