hello
i think im depressed
i used to be best friends with these two girls
but it went completely wrong

its too long to explain but now they both hate me and they are saying things about me behind my back and i can hear them and they say snide comments in the corridor or in class and it really upsets me. It hurts me enough that im not friends with them anymore but it makes things worse when they are mean. In a way though i still love them (not sexually oc) even though they hurt me and i miss them so much. I can’t get over these friendships - they meant the world to me.

And now ive found out my mum is clinically depressed and i have my GCSES soon and im heading towards a nervous breakdown. i cant cope. how can i get over these friendships? how can i look at them without my heart skipping a beat?
thanks in advance
xxx

Ok.. firstly I seriously doubt you have clinical depression.

Clinical depression is actually a disease. I think you're just upset over what happened with your friends.

If you really feel like you might be bordering depression I advise that you go see a doctor. But I doubt you do. Even if your mam has had it before.

With your friends maybe try talking to them? and tell them that the way they are acting is really upseting you. They would stop if they were your friends in the first place.

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Simply knowing you exist aint good enough for me, but asking for your telephone number seems highly inappropriate.
Seen as i cant, even say hi
When you walk by
And that time you shook my hand it felt so nice,
I swear i never felt this way about any other guy
And
I dont usually notice peoples eyes, but ........

Clinical depression is a disease?

Yes. I only found that out last year actually. But yes, it is.

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Simply knowing you exist aint good enough for me, but asking for your telephone number seems highly inappropriate.
Seen as i cant, even say hi
When you walk by
And that time you shook my hand it felt so nice,
I swear i never felt this way about any other guy
And
I dont usually notice peoples eyes, but ........

l2read

her mum has it not her

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Roses are red, Violets are blue. In Soviet Russia, POEM WRITES YOU

Xanthior - Gnome - Warlock - 70 <The Gauntlet>

l2read?

long to read?
but you did read it to see her mom has it and not her

learn to

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Roses are red, Violets are blue. In Soviet Russia, POEM WRITES YOU

Xanthior - Gnome - Warlock - 70 <The Gauntlet>

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ok :]

I don't think your depressed, just very upset over this but it sounds like your afraid of these girls...the best thing is to do is to stand upto them when they're calling you names/making snide comments if not they'll do it even more. Secondly I suggest you find some good friends, you'll soon get over it when you've met new people.

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hey i know exacty what u are goin thorugh apart from the xams
all i did was ignore them an shopw that i did not care when inside i did
an with my mum i just helped her in any way i could

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Every Body Love Some Body

Okay...If you were depressed you wouldn't be eating wanting to live and you would be trying to harm yourself in any way possible, i have Manic Depression so yeah i kinda know.

And yes Clinical Depression is a desease, and she didn't say that about herself she said that about her mum....


I know what bullying is like and yes you may think you are depressed but your just really upset over this and you want to resolve it. If this carries on go and tell a teacher even though they are supposed to be your mates they aren't acting like them they are acting like stupid bullies! Just shows they have bored lives tbh, sorry if i offend you by what i say but it is the truth!

I done a thread about bullying and it just tells you how it effected me, so before you DO turn depressed please tell someone, and yes tell your mum but not just your mum because she would probably say something like oh they will get over it soon and stop it or just tell you to ignore it so tell a teacher as soon as!

=]
Good luck
Lisa x

Depression is more than "not eating and wanting to die". I have it, I should know.

As for the friends, if they're too cowardly to bother you in front of your face, then they're not worth worrying about. Get over it. I know it sounds harsh, but honestly, use some common sense. Stupid people do stupid things. Obviously your "friends" are stupid.

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