Can I get some advice on this?

colie_93 · #1 (**permalink**) Top 05-03-2008, 01:26 AM

I have been so depressed lately and I dont really know whats bugging me the most.
There are many things that could be going on
my friends and I have been arguing alot for no reason, ive been feeling like shit for the past week, ive barely eaten anything, i have a calcium deffocate [dont know if thats how to spell it] and so many other things.

ive been having crazy dreams for the past couple weeks and ive been getting e-mails from my abusive ex boyfriend saying hes gonna come and rape meand shit.

im kinda weirded out and i dont really know what to do about being so depressed

this sucks =/

Bliss · #2 (**permalink**) Top 05-03-2008, 01:31 AM

Is there anybody you're close to that you could at least talk everything over with?

colie_93 · #3 (**permalink**) Top 05-03-2008, 01:34 AM

ive tried talking to a couple of my friends. One of my friends and I talked for about an hour and a half or so about it, but nothing really helped. I honestly dont know whats wrong with me.

Bliss · #4 (**permalink**) Top 05-03-2008, 01:36 AM

Try not to beat yourself up like you are, chances are there's nothing really wrong with you but people do have 'down' periods in their life and unfortunately you just have to work through them.

colie_93 · #5 (**permalink**) Top 05-03-2008, 01:41 AM

Thanks.

Shawrty · #6 (**permalink**) Top 24-05-2008, 12:11 PM

heyy x im in the same position as you and what to do is go see your gp because im still going through depression(it all started when my long-term boyfriend dumped me around 6weeks ago now) and since then everything has just kept going downhill.The same day i was dumped i was told that my uncle had days left to live and then 2 days later he died. My life just wasnt getting any better at all and i couldnt eat anything and i went to the doc and he has referred me to a child psyciatrist and i think it might be a good idea if you spoke to your doctor about this because its a good way to talk about your problems. If not then talk to someone you can trust. As for the ex my ex-boyfriend has been saying the same stuff to me and its freaked me out because he was acting like a completely different person and keeps saying if i tell anyone what hes been saying then hes going to do it etc. Just dont worry because im sure he wont have the guts to do anything. Just talk to someone who you know you can trust with anything and if that doesnt help then i suggest a visit to your gp to see what they can do
hope this helps xx

Shawrty · #7 (**permalink**) Top 15-11-2008, 06:48 PM

Im really sorry to hear that 'hugs' .. im going through exactly the same thing as you to the extent that im depressed i mean! and i have no idea why . My two best friends are bitching about each other and im stuck in the middle so that cant be helping and plus im stuck on crutches cause i damaged the ligiments in my knee and they are making me even more tired and sore! id advise you to go and see your doctor thats what im going to do as he can refer you to a psyciatrist which is what i was referred to before , as for your ex just ignore him or tell someone you can trust. I hope this helps and i hope things get better for you soon. xx