.. its my mum.. shes so difficult to live with. Every single day without fail she starts on me for something or another. When my parents and family go out on a saturday and if im going out later then she'll put her dressing gown around the door handle so she knows if ive been in and out of her room because she thinks i go into their room and take stuff! She ruins everything and it ends up with me in tears and tearing lumps out of myself! i cant handle it anymore and i cant tell anyone about it incase my other siblings get taken away! Im really depressed and she has told me several times that she hates me and im not bothered anymore! she hates my gran aswell and she knows how much my dads mum (gran obviously) means to me and everytime we argue she tells me to go sook up my grans a***. I NEVER do anything to trigger her she just starts on me for nothing all the time i know it sounds like a typical excuse but its true! im not going to the doctor or anything either. i cancelled going to see the psyciatrist aswell because then social'services will become involved etc!. Some of the names she calls me are unreal and extremely hurtful. You would never dream of hearing your mum calling you them but unfortunately i get it all the time! You would NEVER think she's my mum because of the way i get treated! i really don't know what to do anymore but i cant handle this anymore! I would rather not be living than have to suffer it ..
PleaseHelp xx

this is unbelievable ... I'm so sorry to read that !!

but anyway she is still your mother ..

and you have to patience!!

oh my gash...what I can say!!!

I'm really sorry dear!

Well if you won't help yourself by going to the doctor or psychiatrist, what the fuck you want us to do?

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lol

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I didn't notice that lmao.

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You can move out at 17.

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<3Markeh

if you think that I'm funny stupid .. then this is your think !!
but we are here to try to find a solution for Shawrty problem..
and if we don't have any solution..
we could say any good thing!!
not >>>lol

thanks Jren!

lol I moved out at 15 because me and my mother were at each others throats. Thing is, I had somewhere to go. =/

If she won't help herself then there's nothing anybody else can do. Sympathy won't fix this problem, she needs to get her shit together and accept the help she's thrown away.

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I quoted you in my reply, so it wasn't aimed at the original poster.
Secondly, you haven't offered a great solution, just some words about how shocked you are.

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look dear Jren

maybe my English is bad .. and some of my words funny for that


but we don't have to like all members
we have to respect each member ! ! !

put this in your mind

get out as soon as you can, either that, or speak to her.
i know someone who has virtually the same problem, she is ur mum and not worth fighting over stupid things, it could be something troubling ur mum, maybe she is scared because ur growing up......are you the eldest?? if so that could be your problem......
and guys the reason she could have gone to see the psychiatrist or councellor was becasue she could be thinking its all her fault and gettin emotionally blackmailed....it all works out at two different angles...

you can live out at 16

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maybe she doesn't want to move out, maybe she is happy with her family has anyone thought of that! maybe her or her mum is insecure. talk to each other .....its the only was ur gonna find anything out, with out going about snooping. gettin the wrong ideas. so i suggest before u write aything else or ask for any more advice, talk to her!

heya i'm really sorry to hear about your problems, but i know how you feel. when you said your mum calls you all those horrible names, i know it's hard to believe but your not the only girl that gets called them from their parents. i have had lots of horrible names called at me by my mum and i know its awful but i think the only reason that is is because she is just trying to protect you. i mean im no angel but im nearly 16 and have a little girl on the way with my boyfriend that i have been with for nearly a year and i think i would be so much more pretective over her than if my baby was a boy. im not being funny but you need to just sit and chat to your mum and find out why she calls you these horrible things. Or maybe you should try moving in with your gran for a short while.i really hope everything goes okay for you. Good luck gyal X